Thursday, May 20, 2010

Beauty is the eye of the beholder

 

Beauty is the eye of the beholder

This saying first appeared in the 3rd century BC in Greek. It didn't appear in its current form in print until the 19th century, but in the meantime there were various written forms that expressed much the same thought. In 1588, the English dramatist John Lyly, in his Euphues and his England, wrote:
"...as neere is Fancie to Beautie, as the pricke to the Rose, as the stalke to the rynde, as the earth to the roote."
Shakespeare expressed a similar sentiment in Love's Labours Lost, 1588:
Good Lord Boyet, my beauty, though but mean,
Needs not the painted flourish of your praise:
Beauty is bought by judgement of the eye,
Not utter'd by base sale of chapmen's tongues
Benjamin Franklin, in Poor Richard's Almanack, 1741, wrote:
Beauty, like supreme dominion
Is but supported by opinion
beauty is in the eye of the beholder 
David Hume's Essays, Moral and Political, 1742, include:
"Beauty in things exists merely in the mind which contemplates them."
The person who is widely credited with coining the saying in its current form is Margaret Wolfe Hungerford (née Hamilton), who wrote many books, often under the pseudonym of 'The Duchess'. In Molly Bawn, 1878, there's the line "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder", which is the earliest citation of it that I can find in print.

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

缺陷美 ♥


每个人都期望拥有的东西,不管是外在的还是内心的。只要是美的,人人都向往,女骇子希望自己很漂亮,很有气 质,就算在茫茫人海中也能体现自己与众不同的美,与众不同的气质;男孩子希望自己很帅,很酷,希望自己走在街上被女骇子注意……等等

我本人喜欢缺陷美, 
不管一个人有多漂亮,有多帅,
可能在外表上比别人要优越一点,但个人修养,个人素质却是比那些不美,不帅的人要差,
反过来,有的人虽然长的不漂亮,不帅, 但心地好,善良,朴实..

人没有十全十美的 !
不要因为自己在外表上可能比别人优越了一点点就觉得自己所有都比别人强,
有着不可一世的样子...
往往那些看似平凡 的人就能成大器,干一番大事,不用说别的 -

邓小平

就是一个有缺陷美的伟人,他比一般的人矮,
但在自己有生之年做的位子却是全中国最高的,
所以说,那些没有 漂亮外表也好,没有幽雅的气质也好,只要能关心别人,关心自己,多做体现自己个人价值的事,对自己充满信心,那就不会比别人差。

记得有个故事是这样说的 - 
一个古董收藏家外出旅行,在一个村庄的农舍里看见一只脏兮兮的,
并且残破不全放鸡食的盆 子,他于是对农夫说自己愿意出一百块买这只盆子...
但现在身上没带够钱,明天会带钱来买这只盆子,农夫听了很是高兴,
 竟然有人肯出这么高的价钱买这只破盆 子,
于是为了使买主满意,他连夜把盆子洗干净..
并且用很艳丽的油漆漆了一遍,等到明天收藏家来取货的时候不禁吃了一惊,
他对农夫说现在的盆子不是昨天想要 的,农夫不明白就问收藏家:“我特意用油漆漆了一遍,使它看上去更美观,你现在怎么不要了呢?”
收藏家说:“你不明白,这是一件很罕见的古董,我之所以想 出这么高的价钱来买它就是因为想要它原来残破不堪的样子,
你现在把它漆成象崭新的一样,这样还有它本身的价值和它存在的意义了么?”

不管是一件事还是一个人,
往往有它缺陷的一面,
大部分人不懂得去欣赏这种难得的缺陷美,
而我就学着欣赏和理解缺陷美 (:
缺陷美自然有缺陷美它本身存在的意义,
只要懂得去欣赏和理解缺陷美...

你的生活会更美丽一些,
你的人生会更灿烂一些,
对于你自己和你身边的人会有种新的认识和了解。

所以,我们因该让更多的人认识到,有缺陷的美才是最美的!

但是我認为个人修养比外表还要吸引!
女人的样貌是不会永远的,

有智彗的你,
是不会对着镜子裡有岁月的自己...
而叹气 (: